hmm.. today.. i learnt quite a handful of things.. the main thing is, was happy and sad that i got my way to church.. haha.. weird ah? happy that i can go to church, to see my frens, fellowship with them, have fun, catch up:) realli fun.. and i learnt lots of things about BGR.. yup yup.. but learning about BGR, somewhat painful leh.. aiya.. dun wana tink le.. oh well.. basically, the most important thing that i learnt.. is that.. in a relationship, both parties must b able to commit(so if u are not ready to, DON'T).. i also learn the three types of love (epros, philos and agape).. n we shouldn't skip the stage of friendship with the opposite sex, and jump into a relationship.. we shouldn't try to "test the water"; getting into a relationship to see if that is the right person for me.. we should gt into a relationship when we noe that person is the one for me:) that's the difference.. yup yup.. and when studying, it isn't a good idea to date cos it will reali drain us as we havw to balance God, school, family, friends and that relationship.. one last thing is, when pple get into BGR, especially within the youth ministry, it does not only affect the two person.. it affects the whole community.. and also, concentration on God might be lost as the pple in the community turn their focus to that two person.. also thinking that sionce they van start a r/s, why can't i? or when pple in the ministry start to pair up, wat happens to those who are not?yeah.. so.. i realli understood why church is against BGR.. especially in the youth stage.. yup.. so somewhat learning to let go.. more willingly..
yeah.. haha.. on the whole. realli glad to go for fellowship today:) haha.. after fellowsihp, talked to shirley.. asked her about some things that i din understnad in the Bible while i was reading through the book of Matthew.. yup.. had so mani questions.. felt bad to hold her back.. haha.. yeah. then after that, helped kenneth and arvin(is that how i spell? dunno hees) to plan some of the games for the youth retreat on tuesay:) so excited.. realli hope i can join them earlier.. sigh.. but more than happy i can go :) haha.. yup yup.. then had bs.. yeah.. then after that went to singapore post with ethel and evonne to have dinner.. ate minced pork noodel.. super full.. lols.. and i saw some MJ choir seniors.. din go over cos i dun tink they recognised me.. hees.. yup yup.. so i guess.. time to sleep now:) haha.. realli tired today.. yeah.. sleeping time:) goodnight
